Why should’nt you ???

   

When there is a lot of pain that has been trapped inside you

When u feel that u have nothing to hold on tight

When U can see your life tumbling down the steps of expectations 

 When ur heart just cannot endure anything more

When u just don’t want the day to dawn

When u jus spend sleepless nights

When u jus seem to loose yourself

When there is agony and despair piercing the eyes

When there is a betrayal by your close one hitting you tight

When there is a feeling of confusion and isolation

Yes ….When u find yourself in a traumatic state

That would be the last straw for u to break :-(

Why shouldn’t you

Cry your heart aloud and give vent to your feelings ??…Why should you think that shedding tears is being powerless or being timid …. Its just another unadulterated form of emotions …Yes  tat powerful element “ tears” when it flows down our cheeks , our hearts starts to feel light … It tries to put our hearts in a state of composure … It acts as a catalyst to visualize some ray of hope … :-)  It does not reduce the pain, but makes you a little sane … 

What really baffles me is that Boys are called timid when they cry :-( They absolutely have the right to… Its after all a form of expression of their feelings …Why should they be looked down when they express it in this  mode ..Its a big injustice to them ???… :-( :-( :-(

This piece is basically dedicated to all the guys  in particular ….      

Yes …

 U need not shed silent tears

U need not cry from inside

 U need not suppress your feelings Why shouldn’t you cry ….

When u actually want to …

U r just another human being !!!

4 Comments

  1. vasudhesh said,

    April 7, 2007 at 6:26 am

    Vasu…..Any guy !!claiming he never cries lie big time…. ask those guys if someone close to them is dying what will be their reaction….
    Not crying doesnt make guys superman…but letting tears roll down the cheek certainly makes them NORMAL Human being……and i consider myself Normal:)
    Rightly said ..it’s an expression of one type of feeling and crying makes us relaxed and put us in a better state of mind…

  2. vasutalkies said,

    April 7, 2007 at 6:30 am

    Ya … Very true Punit ..Rightly said :-) Jus tat the world keeps saying ” U r a grown up guy ; so please don’t cry ” ..Does gender matter to express one’s emotions :-)

  3. Krish :) said,

    April 7, 2007 at 7:52 am

    hahahaha.. nice one there.. vasu :) … Nothing manly in holding back ur tears agreed.. but men dont cry they just dont.. (I am not saying they never cry).. its not a comparison or an indication of strength or weakness… its only that the form of expression which differs… Women I feel shed their tears and move on.. while men just dont do that… they are okay in the short term.. but on a long run they suffer.. they are unable to forget the past memories.. (Ever wondered the high heart attack in men!!)… I am not being critical of either sex.. Its just that the form of expression differs.. Men and women are different … :)

  4. Gaurav said,

    April 7, 2007 at 12:27 pm

    True Vasu… I agree with u 100%… men or women… gender does not matter the emotions we have in our lives… if we need to cry, we must do… why should you suppress your tears just because you are grown up or just because you are a guy…

    I am always on for letting your emotions being known to others… :)


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